CULTURALLY FLAVA

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bohemea: Naomi Campbell - Vogue by Irving Penn, February 1991

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bohemea:

Naomi Campbell - Vogue by Irving Penn, February 1991

isthereaguideforthis: Michael Steger and his wife, Brandee...

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isthereaguideforthis:

Michael Steger and his wife, Brandee Tucker.

They are oh so cute!

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effyeahsol-angel: Pre-Met Ball Special Screening Of “The Great...

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effyeahsol-angel:

Pre-Met Ball Special Screening Of “The Great Gatsby”

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NOTE TO SELF...

Sun, 05 May 2013 08:00:51 -0400

wordsoflanigirod:

damn, i learnt a valuable lesson this week…don’t mix business with pleasure…it always comes back to hurt the business and friendships…i wonder how couples who are business partners, stay in business…

Business and Pleasure can be mix if it’s the right ingredients.

Tip #1 Have a Shared Integrated Vision

A great place to begin is by developing a clear vision that has both partners heading in the same direction toward common goals. Why do you want to work together? What does your ideal business and relationship look like? The more in sync you are with each other, the greater chance for success. Key things to include are: roles and division of responsibilities, your plan for resolving conflicts, working/personal schedules, time off expectations, risk tolerance, compensation, distribution, and reinvestment of profits into the business, and ending a partnership. By having a shared vision and a mutual understanding of expectations, you will increase your chance of success together.

Tip #2 Create a Partnership Agreement

They say doctors often make the worst patients. To that, attorneys understand better than most, the significance of managing expectations through the use of agreements. Every couple in business should have a common sense agreement. The agreement should incorporate the couple’s vision objectives.

Tip #3 Set Healthy Boundaries

As a coupleboth in business and at home, it is inevitable that the role each plays can get confused at times. Conflict spillover between the roles can be problematic and have an adverse effect on the business and personal relationship. Setting and respecting boundaries is key to enjoying a harmonious relationship, both at home and work. There are no hard and fast rules. Rather, what is important is to have a mutual agreement as to “what works and doesn’t for each of you” and respect the boundaries established. Some couples find it helpful to create a code word or phrase they use to help constructively attract their partner’s attention when they may be crossing a boundary.

Tip #4 Work at Home Consideration

In some cases, one or both partners may be working from home. Under such circumstances, the boundaries between work and personal can cross quite easily. Some partners prefer not to bring in or discuss work at home, while others enjoy it. The most important thing is that both partners agree on how work communication will be handled at home. If you have a home office, it can actually be helpful to create a designated space for work and keep it separate from personal pursuits. Consider the use of decorative room dividers where walls are not an option.

Personally, we had an off-site office location and I preferred that work not be discussed at home. It was important for me to have some down time, turn work off and enjoy quality time with my spouse. My husband and I agreed that, if we wanted to keep the romance in our relationship, we would have to separate work from home as much as possible. (Business talk at home isn’t considered a form of foreplay, as far as I’m concerned). While we agreed to keep work issues out of the home as much as possible, we knew it was unrealistic to think we could never discuss work at home so we agreed on a plan. Whenever we had a work issue needing attention, we would simply let each other know and then reconvene in our home office to discuss and handle whatever was necessary. This worked extremely well for us for over 20 years, but again, the key is in finding what works best for each couple and then honoring it.

Tip #5 Communicate with Understanding and Respect

“He who knows others is learned. He who knows himself is wise.” Lao Tse. Understand, appreciate, and respect your differences, including your communication styles. There are great tools available to help you better understand your communication style and that of your spouse so that you can be more effective in your communication. Often lawyers pride themselves on being great communicators. Please remember that being a “good listener” is every bit as important as being able to openly and effectively be a “good talker.” A favorite and effective communication tool that I’ve used for years with my spouse and also with my couples clients in business, is DISC; a personal and professional assessment solution (sample DISC reports are on my website at http://www.coppiacommunications.com/businesscorporate-teams.html).

Tip #6 Capitalize on Your Differences

Having different strengths, skills, and styles is an asset. Of course, when you work together, all of the ways that you are different will become apparent. Some of these differences in styles may be welcome, while others may not. Once you’ve learned to better understand yourself and your partner, you can leverage your individual and combined talents for even greater success.

Tip #7 Care in Conflict

“Conflict is inevitable, but combat is optional.” Max Lucado. Couples in business can expect their fair share of healthy differences of opinion; however, your business will require that they be resolved quickly, effectively and constructively. Any conflicts should be resolved in private, maintaining a united front to customers, employees, and business partners. Otherwise, your credibility and effectiveness will be diminished.

Tip #8 Be Flexible and Forgiving

Equally important as having clear understandings, considerate communication, boundaries and strategies, is being flexible. Adapting to changes in circumstances is a necessary skill for any business owner, but even more so when dealing with your life and business partner. The same is true for making mistakes. Mistakes, whether your own or your partner’s, are learning opportunities. Treat them as such, without blame. Forgive yourself and your partner for the inevitable mistakes that you will make.

Tip #9 Have Fun

The legal professional can be serious; working together can also be intense at times. Celebrate being a couple at work. Remember to lighten up and regularly make time for fun! Not only is fun, sex, and romance necessary for a healthy personal relationship, it makes the business more personally rewarding.

Tip #10 Integrate Resources

There is a great deal of information available to help Couples in Business succeed. Commit to embrace helpful resources as part of your personal and professional development together. Just a few relevant books include: In Business and In Love, by Chuck and Aprill Jones, Couples At Work, by E.W. “Dub” & Janet James,Coupleprenuers, by Jean R. Charles and Sleeping With Your Business Partner, by Becky L. Stwart-Gross, PhD and Micahel J. Gross, EdD. Also, while not specific to couples in business, a great book for couples to read is The Five Love Languages, by Gary Cha

words of lanigirod...: GET DOWN OR LAY DOWN...

Sat, 04 May 2013 22:15:41 -0400

words of lanigirod...: GET DOWN OR LAY DOWN...:

wordsoflanigirod:

if anyone is reading this…tell me if i’m right or wrong.
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the middle class is disappearing. the new american economy is made up of only have’s and the have not’s…it’s the same thing in business, specifically the fashion business…there’s big corporations (the have’s) and there’s do it yourself…

All business whether are mom and pop shop or big corporation are under Small Business Bureau. They have the same opportunity to get resources like the bigger entity ( corporation). America economical system is an illusion to those who are program to think that we are in recessive. There codes that are place among demographic and underneath these codes are status quo. ( moors will explain to you this) when you are on the polar side of you will always feel the negative aspect. Even Donald Trump is small business what those individual who own these mom or pop or freelance have to realize is that all everything is coming from the same source. The problem is the manufacturing companies being able to produce in large quantity! Customers are not looking for quality sometimes certain demographics are looking quickness. This is more of social economics when it comes to business social issues don’t mix..

words of lanigirod...: BRAND NEW REPOST...

Sat, 04 May 2013 21:45:46 -0400

words of lanigirod...: BRAND NEW REPOST...:

wordsoflanigirod:

i posted these words in my ORIGINAL/NO BRANDS facebook group page back in late February. they still hold relevant and WILL always be tru. so i’m reposting these words:

how many times do you say, “i hate my job/i hate working…” choose you words wisely. you may hate working to make another person…

I totally agree!!

"You’re allowed to fall in love with yourself. I promise. This will be the scariest thing you..."

Tue, 30 Apr 2013 22:04:41 -0400

“You’re allowed to fall in love with yourself. I promise. This will be the scariest thing you will ever do, and that’s okay. It will also be the most amazing (albeit super gradual) experience you will ever have. It doesn’t make you narcissistic. It doesn’t make you vain. It is liberating in every form of the word.”

daghanaianchiq: Global street art

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daghanaianchiq:

Global street art

Sudden Spike Collar Necklace - Accessories - All Categories ...

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Sudden Spike Collar Necklace - Accessories - All Categories (clipped to polyvore.com)

blackandkillingit: http://www.voluptuoussdoll.com/

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blackandkillingit:

http://www.voluptuoussdoll.com/

YESSSSS NIKKI IS DOING IT FOR THE GODS!!

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Mermaid Hips !! Mermaid Skirts !! I want one!!

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This year the fashion trend has drifted toward Mermaid skirts, minis, flares and gowns. These are usually strapless and tightly-fitted at the waist and having a wide flare at the hemline. The 2013 Mermaid Skirt absolutely has been the buzzword in fashion. It brings out the sensual flow while the design and shape accentuate the hourglass of a full set of hips exposing those curves instead of hiding them! You can go “Mermaid Office” in a darker-tone knee-length skirt with a classy shirt or interlaced blouse. You can also go “Mermaid Romantic” with a mesh skirt that reveals the hourglass shape - perfect for showing off your curves for a hot date or to impress that special someone. Finally, you can go “Mermaid Glamorous” with a styled mesh skirt that stylishly compliments the front curves, the back curves and the side hip curves.

fffab: Essie Golden in a bathing suit that will soon be in...

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Essie Golden in a bathing suit that will soon be in sale…. Look out for the deets and link soon

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